Today Lillian's preschool held a play date for all the children. We set out on foot and Lillian said, "I'm not so sure about this." Once we arrived we saw our friend Lily and the two girls played together and each one ventured out a bit on their own. After awhile we headed inside to visit the restrooms and saw name tags on the wall for the children to hang their book bags. Lillian's name tag was a cat! We then got to meet her two teachers and visited their classroom. Lillian told the teacher her name but then quickly turned to me and said, "We are just here for a play date, right?" We also met another little girl in her class. The biggest hit by far was the restroom with the little potty and little sink just kid sized. Before we walked back home we stopped to use the potty and Lillian said she would do it all by herself. She uses the potty at home all by herself but that usually means she comes out with no pants or panties on! But this time she came out with her panties on!
One of the local shopping areas holds a beach music concert on Thursday nights and last night was one of the last ones. We had gone a lot last year but had not made it out this year so Lillian and I decided to go.
Lillian got her picture taken with the cow again and we ran into our friend Lily and her family from playgroup - I do believe that Lillian and Lily are destined to be best friends for life. There were temporary tattoos, pinwheel and bubbles. And then the music started. It was very crowded so the girls ended up dancing near one of the alcohol tents!
Today was Lillian's first day of "big girl" gym class. The class where the children go in only with the instructor, not the parent like she did last year. When she heard me register her for the class and I told her that the mommies and daddies aren't allowed to go in the gym with the children, she promptly fell to the floor and went on a 15 minute tirade about how she was not going to go and she would miss me too much to go. I explained that I would be watching her through the large window in the lobby but that did not seem to appease her.
So this morning came and she still wasn't too sure about it but I said she had to try it a few times and that if she did not like it, we could stop going (the gym offers a 30 day money back policy.) Lillian put on her new purple outfit and off we went. When we arrived and got out of the car she asked if I would give her a "kissing hand" before class and I said sure. We got inside and I gave her the "kissing hand" and luckily we spotted a girl who was in her class last year.
on our way out the door
Then it was time to go inside the gym. Miss Gerry called the girls in and Lillian went with a bit a hesitation. Once inside she looked back at me, stuck her tongue out and rain with the other girls. All throughout the 45 minute class, Lillian would look at me and either wave or blow me a kiss; I guess to make sure I was still out there waiting for her.
She listened and followed directions and even did some activities by herself that she refused to do when I was with her. She lined up at the end of class and collected her coloring sheet and sticker and bounded out to the lobby with a huge smile on her face. She said, "I wasn't even worried or nervous!"
I was and am behind excited for her. This is such a HUGE step for her and she did great. I guess I underestimated her. She may not have cried at gym today but I sure did!
As I was tucking Lillian into bed tonight, she started playing princess beauty shop. She had an old sparkly shirt of mine and draped that around my neck. She then applied some forehead spray, eye spray ans lipstick to my face. She brushed the hair off my face and then said these haunting words, "Now I am just going to split your chin a little bit and hold still while the blood drips down. OK good. No blood on the glitter. All right, your chin is back on in two pieces. You look wonderful!"
I'm not really sure where she came up with that twist in a relatively harmless game. We did look at a Halloween catalog this afternoon. And we have checked out several books about Halloween already. Regardless, I thinks it's best that everyone stay away from this particular beauty shop.
Lillian came into this world on February 18, 2006. She was pulled out of mommy at 9:15 pm. [Lillian wants to say something - Yes, I was being stubborn and decided after getting the labor process started at 12:45 am, I really just wanted to go back up and rest! But no, the doctor wouldn't let me. They put these suction cups on my head and tried to get me out but I held strong. Finally they came and got me through mommy's belly!] Lillian weighed in at 7 lbs 12 oz and was 21 inches long.